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Jewish Rabbis from Across the Religious Spectrum Speak Out
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Rabbi Yehoshua Shapira  (taken from this article at Arutz 7)

Rabbi Yehoshua Shapira, Dean of the prestigious Ramat Gan Yeshiva, estimates  that 80 to 97% of Internet users in the modern Orthodox community have fallen victim to the porn epidemic and will occasionally seek out pornographic sites. He maintains that the temptation is so great to look at forbidden material that a person should not sit down at a computer alone.

"Being open-minded and on the cutting edge of technology has a certain value," admits Rabbi Shapira. "But let's be honest: would anyone bring a prostitute into his home to tutor his children even if she were a talented math teacher?"

Rabbi Shapira recommends avoiding the internet except 1) for work and 2) with a content filter installed. "And like the laws of yichud, never use the internet while alone in the room," he adds.


The renowned Rabbinic leader Rabbi Shmuel HaLevy Vozner issued a Jewish legal ruling forbidding males to surf the internet in a room alone (without a fool-proof filter).



Rabbi Elisha Aviner

Rabbi Elisha Aviner, one of Israel’s foremost authorities on high-school education, gives lectures to parents and teachers all around the country. “There is absolutely no excuse not to have an internet surfing filter on one’s home computer,” he tells parents. “Not to do so is to violate the commandment, “Thou shall not put a stumbling block in front of a blind man.”


Beitar Ilit, one of the most ultra-Orthodox cities in the world, bans open internet use claiming that “Fifty percent of the problems in the city – sholom bayis and chinuch habonim – stem from the Internet. There is a hidden blaze in the city. An atom bomb underneath the city". If this can be said of Betar, how much more so this must be true in less religiously strict cities!


Internet Warning at Yeshiva Darchei Torah

May 14, 2008

From www.theyeshivaworld.com (Click here for the full Article)

A warning about the dangers of unfettered access to the Internet through computers and cellular phones was delivered to hundreds of Yeshiva Darchei Torah parents Monday night by Rabbi Yaakov Bender Shlita, the Rosh Hayeshiva.

The yeshiva is not known for shying away from modern educational tools and methods - and is even notable for the businesslike manner in which it conducts activities such as large meetings and fundraising - but Rabbi Bender used an uncharacteristically lengthy hour-long address to deliver a firmly anti-Internet message.

He went so far as to say that no home ought to have Internet access without the approval and guidance of one’s rav or rebbe.

That would appear to echo a no-Internet policy introduced in Lakewood, N.J.’s yeshiva community several years ago.

No specific incident precipitated Rabbi Bender’s remarks, Mr. Benoliel said, though he did relate a few horror stories during his speech.

In bringing up what he considers to be a very serious problem, he “stated that the dangers inherent in modern technology may be the greatest threat faced by the Jewish People in its history,”. Rabbi Bender was prepared with suggested solutions. Technical experts were on hand, and literature was available to advise parents about Internet filters and even “kosher phones” in which all features are disabled except telephone service and voicemail. No text messaging; no Internet access.

Yeshiva administrators spent days making phone calls urging parents to attend. In the end, 600 people showed up, a very good turnout.


Click here to see what the renowned Rabbi Twerski has to say on internet addiction.


Tzvi Fishman, founder of JewishSexuality.com

“The problem of pornography on the Internet caught everyone by surprise,” Fishman maintains. “Especially among the modern Orthodox Jews in America and the religious-Zionist community in Israel where computers with Internet are a fixture in a majority of homes. Gradually, parents were shocked to discover what their children were viewing while they were away. And plenty of religious kids have discovered long lists of adult sites in their father’s viewing history.”

Tzvi Fishman adds that his site's Forum receives lots of frightening true confessions, along with appeals for advice on how to overcome the urge. “The addiction to Internet pornography leads people into a lifestyle of lying and deception,” he says. “Many people are riddled with guilt, but don’t know how to stop. Young boys describe how they have become loners, trapped in the web of their terrible secret, and husbands write how their addiction has destroyed their relationships with their wives.”

“But if a person truly wants to stop, he or she can,” Fishman asserts. “Just as Alcoholics Anonymous and Gamblers Anonymous have long records of success, we hope to have the same success at Pornoholics Anonymous too.”


Belzer Rebbe Shlita: Kosher Internet Only for Those who Must be Online
YWN Israel

June 10, 2008

The Belzer Rebbe Shlita on motzei Shavuos addressed his chassidim in the Grand Yerushalayim Beis Medrash, telling them that we are now in the time of “Kimu V’Kiblu” and as such, we must realize the Internet brings many “nisyanos” (challenges) to us and for those requiring connectivity to earn a livelihood, must opt for one of the kosher options available today – to distance oneself from the “open internet” and all the threats associated with it.

Addressing the khal following havdalah, a proclamation was made public, signed by all members of the Machzikei Hadas Beis Din, referring to the need to limit dangers as per the Rebbe Shlita, and to continue efforts in tandem with the Rabbinical Communications Committee which oversees kosher cellular telephones towards providing kosher internet to those whose lives demand connectivity.

A new system with a higher filtering ability is running in pilot mode to meet the needs of those who must be connected or use email, adding the Badatz is aware that the success of filtered systems to date depends greatly on the cooperation of an end-user, stressing the many dangers associated with Internet access. The rabbanim Shlita are not giving a blanket ‘hechsher’ to Internet use, explaining they are aware one cannot be ‘me’taher es ha’sheretz’ (purify the contaminated) and therefore, there is no blanket approval regarding Internet use, even filtered as it may be.

In another publication released by the Machzikei Hadas Beis Din, reference is made to those who “have no alternative” and must be connected to the Internet to earn a livelihood – urging them to change over to the new pilot filtered system which limits risks to exposure to to’eva. The badatz notice is also addressing those who just use email.


Click here for an article from Rabbi Elyakim Levanon, Rabbi of Elon Moreh on breaking free of internet pornography addiction.


From Arutz Sheva November 12, 2007

Rabbis Back Search Engine without Internet Link

A new plan backed by leading Hareidi religious rabbis will allow use of an Internet search engine without direct link to the Internet, Globes reported. The Hareidi religious community generally disapproves use of the Internet because of its exposure to secular material.

Neto Shops and a group named DSK have teamed up to provide the news service in an attempt to enter the huge Hareidi religious market of more than one and a half million people. The "Neto-to-Home" program allows access to articles and classified ads via free CDs, which will be supervised by rabbinic authorities.


From Arutz Sheva December 12, 2007.

Hareidi Jews Given Go-Ahead To Surf The Web

The Rabbinical Communications Committee (RCC) [webmaster's note - the RCC is backed by the major Hareidi religious leaders, such as R' Eliyashiv, R' Wosner and the Admor of Gur] announced Wednesday that it would allow the strictly Torah observant Hareidi community to surf the internet. The go-ahead was given after an agreement between the rabbis and Israel's internet service provider's operators would enable users to block offensive or inflammatory content. The pilot program is currently operated through the Bezeq internet provider.  The RCC is conducting talks with Hot Cable Systems to agree to run the program, as well.

The RCC sought to enable Hareidi Jews to surf the web due to the growing need of its constituency to use the internet for business and professional purposes.  According to the manager of the McCann Erickson Israel Hareidi Section, 60 percent of Hareidi Jews have computers, with 35 percent having internet access. 

The RCC was established within the Torah observant Hareidi communities in 2006 in order to assist them in finding appropriate means to use cell phone technology.